What to Look For in any Plutonic or Romantic Relationship?

Be in a relationship with someone who works on expressing their love with action.
Be in a relationship with someone who is trying to improve their relationships.
Be in a relationship with someone who takes the time to understand you.
Be in a relationship with someone who tries to understand you.
Be in a relationship with someone who is patient.
Be in a relationship with someone who likes spending time with you.
Be in a relationship with someone who can share their world and their hobbies with you.
Be in a relationship with someone who is your friend.

That's it.

Korean Big Brother Culture Done Respectfully

Got taken out for dinner and ice cream and then had a great talk about Buddhism philosophy. In Korea culture, the older Korea pay though next time I will pay. But what really matters is that the "older brother" is looking out for the younger guy. I really appreciate my friend's life experience and advice without condescension. And then to respect if I disagree and let me make the choices. We get something back from the exchange even if I take another way. That someone is listening to me and respects my path. He gets to help his friend. I really appreciate the strong male brotherhood in Korea. Thank you brother.